The Spaces Between Your Fingers

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I interviewed my mom Dragana Regodic via Skype. My dad didn’t officially ask her to get married even though they planned the whole wedding. My mom wanted my dad to propose to her officially before they got married, and my dad knew that she was serious about not getting married without the official proposal.

It was a month before our wedding and he still didn’t propose to me. We invited everyone, booked a restaurant, but I made it clear that I would not get married if he didn’t propose to me officially.

He told me that there was a problem with the restaurant we booked, so he wanted to find a backup restaurant in case we needed to change our plans. He also told me to meet him in a part of the city that I wasn’t familiar with.

“Where are we going? I still don’t know Belgrade quite well, but I’m sure that we’re not going to find a restaurant here.” I said knowing that restaurants in that part of the city were way over our budget.

“Can’t you just trust me? Just follow me.”

“Okay, I will,” I said still trying to figure out where we were heading.

Even though I knew him for too short to actually know what he was up to, I could tell he was up to something big. I could feel the excitement in his voice. His satisfied smile while he was talking definitely confirmed that he had planned something. But what?

After walking for fifteen minutes, I started to recognize the place where we were walking towards. We were at the Gardos Tower, a place from where you get an amazing view of Belgrade. There was a stage next to the tower. He climbed onto the stage, while I just stood there confused.

“Are you going to sing for me or what?” I asked sarcastically.

“Why don’t you join me up here and find out?” he said still with a smile on his face.

“I would if you give me a hand”

He grabbed my hand and pulled me on the stage. I took a couple of steps forward towards the microphones.

“Wow, the view from here is amazing. I’ve never been on a stage. I feel like a pop star,” I said, but there was no response. “Hey, I’m talking to you,” I said as I turned back. And there he was on his knees with a ring in his hand.

“Dragana, will you marry me?”

I just stood there speechless. I was overwhelmed with emotions like I never was before.

 “I didn’t think that I would have to ask twice, but will you marry me? I need an answer,” he said smiling at me.

“Yes of course! Yes, yes!” I answered excitingly.

He put the ring on my finger, stood up and kissed me. I had waited for that moment for so long, and when it finally happened the time stopped for me. I felt so special in his arms.

“So, now it’s official. We’re getting married,” I whispered.

“Oh, you just had to ruin this moment by reminding me,” he whispered back smiling, holding me even tighter than before.

A Man Full of Surprises

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October of 1991
Gardos Tower, Belgrade

I interviewed my mom Dragana Regodic via Skype. My dad didn’t officially ask her to get married even though they planned the whole wedding. My mom wanted my dad to propose to her officially before they got married, and my dad knew that she was serious about not getting married without the official proposal.

Decade: 1990s
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Recorded by Dimitrije Regodic on December 1, 2016
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